IV. Vows of
Voluntary Sacrifice
“We freely offer up our appetites, wealth, and
pride to relieve the suffering of the world, for the sake of our neighbors and
God’s joy.”
- In confrontation and conflict I
will seek justice and reconciliation rather than victory, and I will make
any necessary sacrifice of my own person, pride or property to achieve
reconciliation and justice.
“All too often I see victim’s families
consumed by hate.” Judge Martin Gonzalez understands compassion and hope are a
powerful oddity and conveyed that fact to the young sixteen-year-old receiving his
sentence. “The forgiveness of [this victim’s] family has reverberated
throughout this case… You have had a shield around you of forgiveness and love
by the victims that is phenomenal. They have been your guardian angels.”
Cindy and Herm Weaver and children Hope
and Dillon lost their daughter and sister in October 2010 when she was hit and instantly
killed by a pickup truck while out on her bicycle. Chloe Weaver was with
Mennonite Voluntary Service in Alamosa, Colorado when she was struck from
behind by young driver, Kyle Stotsky. Yet, in this wrenching tragedy an
inspiring story of Christ’s transformative love has beamed through the
responses of the Weaver family. The Weavers stressed their hope for restoration
and reconciliation with Kyle rather than incarceration and retribution. Herm, the
conference minister with Mountain States Conference of Mennonite Church USA,
made it clear that Chloe would have had no desire to have two lives ended and
would rather have Kyle continue Chloe’s legacy.